Back in March after doing a lot of reading and thinking and praying I really felt that there was a project that I should do for 2013. Something that God had put on my heart and something that I knew I could learn from and help others learn from too. So after 6 months of praying and planning I am at the point where I’m ready to share it all with you, and ask for some help.


So here’s the big plan. God put on my heart some characteristics that a Godly wife has, and how I can work on them myself but also come alongside other wives and women to work on those characteristics in practical ways. So sat and meditated and prayed and God put certain characteristics on my heart that should be the focus; 12 characteristics, one a month for the year.


This is where the Help Wanted comes in. I want to pair with one or two with you every month for the year to share with our readers what characteristic we’re working on, our goals or plan for the month and then how we feel we did, and something maybe we could work on more.


Here are the characteristics for us to focus on:

  • Sincerity
  • Attentiveness
  • Enthusiasm
  • Obedience
  • Diligence/Determination – I feel these go hand in hand in marriage
  • Contentment
  • Honour
  • Faith
  • Discretion
  • Initiative
  • Joyfulness
  • Patience


Here’s what I’m looking for from you. It’s a one month commitment, with two posts a month on the first and last Monday of the month. The last post will be a link up to see how our readers felt about the characteristics and see their how they worked on that characteristic.


I would love if you would pray about it and see if this is a project you want to be a part of, and if you feel that it is, send me an email. If you want more details or want to chat about it a bit more before you can me a decision, I would love to chat. Also, even if you’re not married but would like to participate please let me know. I fully believe that even before we meet our future husband we are preparing to be his wife. I have a few characteristics in mind just for you single girls who want to particiapte too. Email me at


Have a blessed day! And I can’t wait to hear from you.


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6 Responses to Help Wanted

  1. Jessica says:

    This sounds really interesting. I pray that God uses it to grow you and grow others who read this blog. Blessings!

  2. Jess Judkins says:

    I love this idea! Maybe its just because my wednesday morning bible study is currently on Colossians but it reminds me of one of my life verses (what I strive for) Colossians 3:12-17

    • babeblessings says:

      You should totally join me one month. I would love to have you. And yes!! Colossians! letting other's know that we're working on things just like they are, and goodness sometimes we fall to, but when we get back up it's the heart behind it that matters most.

  3. Virginia says:

    I would love to chat with you at influence about this! 🙂

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